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The Gentleman Coach

Career Coaching for Professional Women











Duncan Wright, The Gentleman Coach for Women. 

I am a love and dating coach, and I sincerely believe in the inner beauty and specialness of all women, including those alone or having challenges in finding an amazing partner. My clients are all amazing, beautiful women over 40 and I help them find, and own "The Goddess within." My work includes supporting the growth of their confidence, highlighting their unique and magical qualities, and putting their best self forwards without shame or guilt.

If this is you, I find it really important to spend some time on helping you work through, and dump any hints of poor self-image, negative beliefs, shame, guilt, and outdated stereotypes These things are preventing you from feeling fantastic about yourself. Let's trade them in for positive qualities and an optimism about love and life! Only then can you be at your magnetic best and bring in the man you really want in your life. Ditch the losers, you know you can do better! 

I have a facebook page "The Gentleman Coach" and a website I offer courses in "The Goddess Within," and hold workshops, and can do individual sessions. Also, no charge, I will send you an assessment, and a summary of what you have to work on if you have historically struggled with your own emotions in relationships to others. 

Call me if you would like to begin somewhere. I can offer you a free strategy session to find out what's not working and how you can resolve it by making some healthy and empowering changes. I am motivated by your success, the most important thing in the world. 

Wishing you the best of luck in love,



629 State St
Santa Barbara, CA 93101
Phone: (805) 452-5171

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Monday 8:00 am - 8:00 pm
Tuesday 8:00 am - 8:00 pm
Wednesday 8:00 am - 6:00 pm
Thursday 8:00 am - 8:00 pm
Friday 8:00 am - 5:00 pm
Saturday 9:00 am - 4:00 pm

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